I wish there was a kind of super-upvoting that added one to the font-size of the comment you're upvoting, because I would absolutely super-upvote this comment.
> Abstraction is a way to get that complexity filtered down as close to the problem's inherent complexity as possible. Yes, you'll have to learn the abstractions, but if done reasonably well, that will still be much easier than trying to understand the non-abstracted version.
Absolutely. It's possible (arguably, too easy) to build a bad DSL, but the point of a DSL is to surface the inherent complexity of your domain so you can grapple with it on its own terms. Not using a DSL doesn't mean that complexity goes away; it just means you have to grapple with that complexity using coarser tools. You usually end up with a DSL-lite of types and functions that work in your domain, often with warts due to poor interactions with the host language's feature set.
For a lot of reasons, I'm a big fan of eDSLs, which aren't too much different from the DSLs-lite we usually end up with. But overcoming that impedance mismatch with the host is not easy. (That's one of the benefits of Lisp, I think -- very low impedance mismatch to overcome!)
I've gotten somewhat good at doing eDSLs in Java(!), where you want to keep things mostly idiomatic, unconstrained Java while still adding the novel behaviors you need for your domain solutions. But you're always going to have to wrangle the complexity of your domain, whether or not you involve a DSL in that effort.