Ha there's so many assumptions (driven by bad experience -- I'm sorry about that). But I don't know where to begin.
One indication that I work with the best is where they go when their work here is done. In some cases, the finest work e.g. SpaceX has done is done with our alumni in leadership and contributor positions.
Another indication is top tier publications. Or the fact that our tech does what has never been done before by definition.
Another indicator is how many people are willing to work for a pay cut to be here and work on what we do. Speaking of coming from SpaceX and every major aerospace company.
Another indication comes from the partnerships we have where we collaborate as equals with any of those mythical "better" places.
It may not fit your world view or experience, but it is possible for good people with top notch skills to choose a career that does not focus solely on pay. We just work in an unprofitable domain. We don't work with incompetent people.