Rc/Arc is usually the escape hatch. I presume you put raw pointers under the "no reasonable" caveat, but if the borrow checker is wrong and you're right, they can be the right tool too. They're not unreasonable if the alternative was to use a different language that couldn't guarantee this safety either.
I know dealing with the borrow checker can feel like a dead-end sometimes, but dealing with it is something that you can learn. Things that it can't handle fall into a handful of common patterns (like self-referential structs). Once you learn what not to do, you can recognize and avoid the issues even before you write the code.