Programs in un-managed languages can be slow too, and excessive use of malloc() is a frequent culprit. But the difference is that if I have a piece of code that is slow because it is calling malloc() too much, I can often (or at least some of the time) just remove the malloc() calls from that function. I don't have to boil the ocean and significantly reduce the rate at which my entire program allocates memory.
I think another factor that gets ignored is how much you care about tail latency. I think GC is usually fine for servers and other situations where you are targeting a good P99 or P99.9 latency number. And indeed, this is where JVM, Go, node.js, and other GCed runtimes dominate.
But, there are situations, like games, where a bad P99.9 frame time means dropping a frame every 15 seconds (at 60fps). If you've got one frame skip every 10 seconds because of garbage collection pauses and you want to get to one frame skip every minute, that is _not_ an easy problem to fix.
(Yes, I am aware that many commercial game engines have garbage collectors).