So in that respect, a Christian's relationship with God ought to me markedly different from how many other religions relate to the gods they worship.
This comment makes me think you've never had a toddler, much less a teen.
Tell that to Job. Whose "Father" tortured him to win a bet.
And yet that's not how the bible is taught at a vast majority of churches. "The bible is the word of God. Jesus changed his relationship with us, which is why his behavior is different between the old and new Testament. End of discussion."
I still recall the lecture I got when I once questioned whether Genesis was an allegory for the creation of the universe over billions of years. "No, it was 7 days, exactly as the bible says."
Christians "who suffer according to God's will should entrust themselves to their faithful creator while continuing to do good." (from 1 Peter 4)
"Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." (from Romans 8)
"Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning the shame, and sat down at the right hand of God" (from Hebrews 12)
So Job, like Jesus himself, serves as an example of a faithful son who endured suffering and after a short while was restored.
I'd like to believe it's a generally accepted truth that if you have the knowledge that something really, really bad's happening (by way of Job praying, the topic of this entire thread), the power to do something about it, and have been doing things about it before, and yet refuse because of a wager, YTA.
In such a situation, whether it's God or the world doing the torture is kinda splitting hairs.
“My point, once again, is not that those ancient people told literal stories and we are now smart enough to take them symbolically, but that they told them symbolically and we are now dumb enough to take them literally.”[0]
[0] https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/816617-my-point-once-again-...