Where in EU would you relocate?

I can tell you that having a small kid in Germany is a pain, as kindergartens can be hard to get into. Also, the country is stuck in the 80s when it comes to bureaucracy and digitalization. Depending on where you live, you may find it difficult to have friends and adapt - the West/North being much more accepting than the South/East. This is not to say that Germany is a bad option, but it is a weird country that takes some effort to live in as a foreigner.

I haven't lived in the UK or Switzerland, but if you have an option to be anywhere in Europe, you might want to consider Denmark. Copenhagen is very beautiful and a delight to live in, and public services are all top notch. Other options I would personally consider are Netherlands, Belgium and Portugal, but I haven't lived there as well.

If its a company starting with G, they are one of the highest-paying employers in Switzerland. That would be my pick, with the following pros and cons:

Pros:

- Great outdoors activities all year round.

- Beautiful country, every few meters you can snap a postcard-perfect picture.

- Low taxes, decent public services. Not as good as Germany if you need public assistance or want to have children.

- Zero taxes on capital gains when you satisfy long-term investor criteria.

Cons:

- People are insular and somewhat closed-minded.

- Politics can lean towards the right.

- Citizenship is harder to get both for yourself and your children even if they are born in Switzerland.

- Language is hard. Harder than Germany I would say, unless you speak French and are living in Romandie, because Swiss German is a dialect and not taught in schools and courses the way Hochdeutsch is.

- Having children and buying property is more expensive here in absolute terms, although manageable on a FAANG salary.

- Less maternity & paternity leave. Germany is the best in that regard unless comparing to Scandinavian countries.

I personally live in Germany and am looking at moving to Switzerland for the pros I mentioned.

Addendum: If you only speak English, Berlin is your best bet between all the cities in Germany and Switzerland.

Sweden might be an interesting alternative. The language is quite a bit easier to learn than German, social security works rather well and the cost of living is not that much higher than in Germany if you don’t move to Stockholm (I’m a German living and working in Sweden, but will go back to Germany later this year). Of course, you have to like winters…

Depends on how much you make.

UK (London) offers the best quality of life if you have tons of money to spend.

Germany is fine if you don’t have much money to spend. Don’t expect to find any luxury though.

Switzerland is great if you have tons of money to spend and don’t want to live in a big city.

Brexit has been utterly irrelevant to wealthy people, in fact it seems to have made some luxury goods cheaper.

I personally would choose somewhere in southern EU like Portugal, Spain, or Italy. Better weather and I think lower cost of living - assuming her salary is same in any EU country and they aren't pro-rating it.

You will most likely have to supplement any education for your child anyhow (to educate them on English and American things), I wouldn't focus too much on that being a deciding factor. As much as there are different areas in the US, the culture is very similar. I imagine being a road trip away from the language and culture of another country will provide more perspective and opportunities for education than you could get here in the US.

Maybe the company can offer up ex-pats in your top 3 countries that she can talk to for an idea on what its like?

If your requirement is the EU (and not merely Europe) ... I've heard the best things about the Nordic countries (especially Sweden) and Cyprus

Switzerland isn't a member of the EU (https://www.schengenvisainfo.com/countries-in-europe/eu-coun...) - but the folks I' know who've lived there liked it (minus cost of living)

I've also heard good things about Iceland - but, again, they're not an EU member nation

Big cities in Germany, Sweden, Netherlands, UK, Ireland are all great. Especially if you aren't white. Too much right wing politics in France and Switzerland.

You can live very well in all of those countries. Furthermore, the quality of life can vary greatly between subregions. It all depends on what you value in life, and without that we’re left with a very broad and vague question.

If I had the choice I would go for Spain, Portugal, Switzerland, the Netherlands, or Denmark. All have fantastic living standards by almost any metric, and given that it’s a FAANG job I’m sure cost won’t be as much of an issue.

Salaries in Switzerland are significantly higher so you may end up better off, even taking cost of living into account. On the other hand, if you think the German language is on the negative side then you should avoid Swiss German speaking areas (Swiss German is its own thing...)

I am not sure Brexit makes much difference unless you are EU citizens. Note that London is its own bubble so it would also depend on where in the UK you would be moving to.

Of those three? Germany, hands down.

I've visited Germany and the UK a dozen or so times each, back in my international traveling consulting days. (Though only three times to Switzerland, for short visits - not enough to say much.)

German is not so difficult and many Germans speak English. I've had several English/non-German-speaking friends move there. And if your wife is working with a large company, they'll be able to help with the transition and government bureaucracy. Plus, she'll have plenty of co-workers who have done the same thing.

Germany also has good public services. There's more support for walkable/bikeable living than the UK.

Beyond that though really requires knowing more of your preferences. Friends of mine living in the UK didn't like sending their kids to gender-separated schools. I don't like the UK's privatization policies, nor its class system.

While my political and other persona views seem more aligned with German ones.

I can't help but wonder if, during those "international traveling consulting days", had a long-term contract in Germany, I might be living there now.

Are you currently in Ireland? If you want something similar consider other areas of England outside the South-East (I'm in Nottingham) or Scotland or Wales. Where have you lived previously? What do you enjoy doing?

Lots of people live/work in Germany or Switzerland without speaking German! Personally I'd go for Norway (not sure if that counts) or Spain.

Munich. Surf culture, Great Beer, 2 hours to the slopes. Low crime rate. Cycle lanes. Oktoberfest. Most people speak english.

Switzerland has difficult languages too, including German, and Switzerland is not part of the European Union (if you meant that by "EU") ;)

Lots of my peers are going to Malta. I wonder how is it.