Bad? I don't think I'd use that term. Fragmented? Full of "bike-shedding"? Fanboi-ism? Definitely those things apply. There are some tools that seem to dominate the market currently. And as often is the case, you may form a love/hate relationship with them. Web dev in 2008 was simple. You had your markup, your CSS, and your scripts that progressively enhanced that markup/styling. There are subsets of people that never wanted it to move beyond that. There's another subset that's been pushing the boundaries of what the web can do. Both are right, and both could stand to learn a few things.

If you find yourself working alone/contracting, you have absolute freedom to try out anything you want. Find what works for you. Do NOT use something simply because "the cool kids on Twitter are hyping it". Find out if those tools actually make your dev experience, and your user's experience better.

If you find yourself on a team at a larger org, learn to be comfortable with the tools they've chosen - until you reach a point where you get to have a say.

Web development can be an awfully fun career but I'd urge you as you get a bit deeper into the programming side of it, to really learn some fundamental concepts. Maybe start with Jack Herrington videos on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JackHerrington

I've found him to be very level-headed in his approach.