Are you arguing that socialized medicine can't exist in a free society and treatment should be based on meeting a list of requirements? Are you arguing that the government should only make benefits available if you make the correct fiscal choices? Let's say you are poor and choose to have a child, should the government prevent you from getting benefits for that child because of the choice you made?

You could say the same about obese people, drinkers, and smokers. We also pay for the healthcare of pedophiles and rapists.