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0 pointsalexb_4y ago0 comments

Having decent relationships with other people != having a large number of superficial friends

0 pointsalexb_4y ago0 comments

Having decent relationships with other people != having a large number of superficial friends

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josefx4y ago· 2 in thread

But it explicitly excludes friends, love and even respect. How do you have a decent relationship with people without any respect?

By offering respect without the need to receive respect in return.

Ah so it encourages people to enter abusive relationships.

staticman24y ago· 1 in thread

The a.i. warns against external validation from love and friends. It does not warn of superficial friends but "friends".

swid4y ago

I interpret the warning as the external validation part, not the type of friend.

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