In Rust, the answer is #[non_exhaustive], which forces consumers to always add a default case. It’s not a huge deal, just a known issue with a well-understood solution.
If something is handling A and B, but you add C, the code probably needs to make sure it's handling C correctly.
I use Java in my dayjob and the behavior you've outlined is how I always code things, but it's manual and doesn't happen at compile time: I provide default that throws a runtime exception.
I'm not disparaging closed enums, they are very useful in certain contexts, but they make it really easy to do the wrong thing when reading data off the wire. Given Go is focused on this exact domain (distributed systems), I am glad the language doesn't have them.