As opposed to the other person, who laid out their anecdotes to make themselves feel better by not providing sufficient information to refute it?
Come on. The stats support colleges. You need to provide more than anecdotes to be taken seriously. I could just as easily blurt out that I make more than all of his 5 kids combined because I went to college and boom, anecdote refuted. This isn’t how it’s done in conversations worth having.