No, no it is not. These are legitimate consentual messages, regardless of the content. Please stop applying mechanical interpretations of obtuse rules and pretending it's some profound wisdom. Twilio and the rest of Big Tech are already doing this enough, thank you.
Ultimately I think this problem is the end game of companies finding ways to absolve themselves of any liability through contracts of adhesion. When there is no downside to harming 1% of your customers besides losing 1% of revenue, biasing for egregious false positives makes financial sense. Same thing with terrible customer service policies crafted around keeping costs down, that prevent easily correcting these terrible automated decisions. About the only thing one can do is signal boost so others stay the fuck away from services built on broken assumptions, hopefully turning that 1% into maybe 10% where it starts to hurt them and they're once again encouraged to do competent system design.