voakbasda even proposed giving a bounty. Is defacing a website and spearfishing the users (as is claimed higher up in the thread) needed for white hats to do their thing? I'm surprised that we aren't all in agreement that this isn't at least grey hat behavior.

This isn't how a white hat should behave. At the first issue, they should have stopped, reported, and waited. At the very least, a responsible disclosure, followed by a reasonable time, then maybe public disclosure-- or just move on. Continuing to dig and steal information because someone didn't reply is unacceptable.

This is the most accurate analogy I've seen in months, thank you for sharing it!