Please try not to be rude. I have decades of experience on Linux. I'm giving my good faith opinion. You won't get far in life by assuming those who disagree with you have been duped / trained into their disagreement.
See my other comment - Debian's packaging is just ok, not good, and it only manages to be sufficient because its users are highly technical and can work around breakage. It also is an ecosystem that is several orders of magnitude smaller and thus easier.