There's no need to chase the latest Node JS shenanigans. It feels like it's all we talk about on HN but a huge, huge number of developers are out there happily coding away in Java, C# and all the rest. Even within Node world the majority are using the exact same React stack (the homogeneity of which is the reason for using it in the first place).
IMO Ruby has faded because it never found its niche. Java and C# thrive in the corporate world. Python already exists as a dynamically typed server language. As much as people complain, writing server-side web stuff in JS does make sense given it's what you're using in the client. So where does Ruby go?