"Oh neat, you can mentally generate warmth and we can measure with a thermometer!"
"No, no. It's mental warmth only."
"Okay, so you never get cold?"
"Well, no, true cold overwhelms my mental warmth, I get cold as easily as anyone else."
"But, you could make yourself sweat on demand, right?"
"No, sweating is a response to actual warmth..."
That's what it's like in this thread. People claim to have an ability that produces no actual difference. Elsewhere in this thread we see that mental imagery folks aren't better at shape rotation (they're worse), they can't draw from their images the way the could from real images, their mental imagery is vague, low resolution, and imprecise.
A blind person easily discovers the sighted can do things they cannot. Read text, spot distant objects, etc. A person with aphantasia discovers there is nothing the visualizer can do that they cannot. How could this be so?
I think you're just confused about which of us the blind one is.