I am not a pilot. But I am an aerospace engineer who worked on critical flight detail designs. You've likely flown on my work. My father was a pilot for the AF for 20 years. You don't get to be an old pilot if you don't pay attention 100% to the instructions and training. Flying isn't like driving a car. Humans are not natural flyers. You rarely get a second chance if you make a mistake flying.
Maybe 90% of flight training is dealing with emergencies. If you're not dedicated to doing it right, and doing it 100%, every time, you've got no business being a pilot with hundreds of lives depending on you.
P.S. I've gone flying with pilot friends many times. I watch them do the preflight. If they're not 100% perfect with it, I'm getting off.