Only place I've ever worked where everyone had seen everyone else naked...
After that.
4 weeks of vacation --- minimum.
Good health care
Real dental coverage
Gym subsidy
Comuting help (shuttles, or public transport subsidies)
Moving assistance, both in the financial sense, and in terms of connecting people with necessary services and utilities. This is especially salient in a place like New York where life is not as "convenient" as one might expect it to be.
The bigger question to me, as with charities, is how much goes to the people that matter. In this case, the ones that care for my kid.
This can be more of a personal preference type of thing.
IMO an employer should (a) pay employees fairly and (b) treat them well, give them enjoyable work, etc. And then (c) share the company's profits, if there are any (or when they come). I think this is more important than having an impressive slate of benefits.
Judge work by result and not by time spent.
1. interesting work (not sure if this is considered a perq by most, but it is for me.)
2. time off, both via flexible work schedules and generous vacation
3. located within a short commute of desirable and reasonably affordable housing. alternatively offering telecommuting
Other benefits like health/life/disability insurance are nice, but they won't make or break a deal for me any longer.
I often cook the troops quality, gourmet food, give them cool trips and the chance to put up crazy installation art, and throw many person dinner parties (with outsiders, too).
I also am getting graph paper placemats:
http://einfall.wordpress.com/2008/08/20/engineers-a-paper-ta...