here was a Nobel laureate telling me that he didn’t really understand it either
Analogies that were meant to “help understand” reality had in fact supplanted it ... ts entire aim was to pretend that science is not mysterious.
I've noticed that people at the top of their field in computing tend to have that humility, too. It's a contrast to those who insist that their way is the only way, that what they see is all there is to see. Computing is also mysterious.
It helped once I saw a video of him lecturing: it made such a strong impression that I can hear him as I'm reading. He was quite the showman.
"I’m sorry I can’t do that for you. I don’t know how. I have no picture of this electromagnetic field that is in any sense accurate. (…) So if you have some difficulty in making such a picture, you should not be worried that your difficulty is unusual."
Honesty.
To an extent I agree with the blog author when he says these analogies tend to 'supplant reality.' Of course their entire aim is "to pretend that science is not mysterious". Math is the only language for understanding these concepts but relating them to the human experience helps (many people, probably most) in understanding. It's not our fault that he's never studied physics & prefers to read the cliffsnotes versions.
I think this kind of concrete example is qualitatively different from an analogy or other way of visualizing the full system. The former helps more in specific circumstances, while the latter gives a warm, happy, and likely incorrect feeling of understanding.