What I've seen is that you need people who deeply understand the system (e.g. Spark) to be able to tune for these edge cases (e.g. see [1] for examples of some of the tradeoffs between different processing schemes). Those people are expensive (think $500k+ annual salaries) and are really only cost effective when your compute spend is in the tens of millions or higher annually. Everyone else is using open source and throwing more compute at the problem or relying on their data scientists/data engineers to figure out what magic knob to turn.
