The current US COVID fatality rate is 1 in 50 cases. The incidence of measurable brain damage in survivors appears to be even higher. Even if we pretend that everyone in the entire US has already been infected (obviously false), that would still be a fatality rate of 1 in 550. Getting to 1 in a million takes some extreme stretching.
> We never made everyone stay inside with AIDS
I don't know who all needs to hear this, but you cannot get HIV from someone breathing on you. Also the government's weak/slow response to the HIV epidemic in the US is considered by many historians to have been a complete travesty of governance. I don't think it makes the great point of comparison that you intended it to.
> all viral colds have a whole slurry of symptoms that some unlucky few get
"Few" being the operative word there. The difference in risk between a cold and COVID is stark.
> I remember when some kid in my mom's second grade class died one weekend
You remember it as a weird rare event because there wasn't a global cold pandemic killing 1 in 50 people who got infected.