From a technical perspective there are plenty of ways to serialize / order some stream of events in a reasonable way. Whether that's implementing your event store on top of a transactionally secure database (e.g. Postgres, not Mongo) or using a higher throughput, less persistently secure solution like Kafka. There's also ways to deal with eventual consistency and distributed transactions (SAGAs) depending on the need.

The hard part is that ES/Streaming systems work best / almost necessitate a clean and clear domain model. A clean and clear domain model requires a lot of discussion and consensus with domain experts and product owners. Buy in to have the kind of discussions needed is the source of the issues I've experienced with these kind of systems. CRUD can paint over a lot of cloudy abstract concepts for better or for worse. These kind of discussions are energy intensive and mentally painful to cast light on the cloudy thoughts.

There's not great streaming/es support on a language level outside of the robust actor model systems (e.g. Erlang/Elixir). There are systems like Akka that simulate that to some extent on runtimes like JVM, but a cooperative scheduler and an actor model don't mix great. For non-actor model aspects I've been seeing more service level dataflow systems like KSQL / MaterializeDB gain traction, but are nevertheless a solution for read-models not application logic.