I think Node would indeed be seen as the “easier” choice for project with concurrency needs thanks to its async model.
As much as I like JS I’m not a big fan of it on the server however - web frameworks are lacking and tooling and libraries feel like the wild west.
In Phoenix I’d see a web framework for projects with concurrency reqs, with great ergonomics and DX, nothing else. Maybe I’d miss types? But we work with Python just fine.