If you've never shed a tear over something so close but ultimately not working, then you must be a robot or souless. It's human nature. You could just as easily add and/or swap tears for curses. Personally, I lean toward the cursing as it's more satisfying.
Also: argue: intransitive verb: To put forth reasons for or against; debate.
The fact that this word immediately sets forth a hostile emotion for you does not mean I am being hostile.