That aspect of Node.js can actually be a very good thing for serious backend work, as it encourages process decoupling using API's. Decoupling ends up scaling better later on: you build a distributed system that can be scaled out horizontally across a fleet, rather than running up against vertical scaling limits of how many threads you can get running on the same local hardware.

Whenever I've seen applications that use worker threads for backend systems they end up regretting it and wished they had decoupled into a separate process that could have been scaled independently onto other hardware over the network. Spinning up new threads on the same machine is a temporary crutch that bites you later on in your growth.