>stories are all about a Chinese company once having done a thing they were asked to do...

The dutch governement and the dutch telecom providers did NOT ask any chinese governement or huwawei to eavesdrop or do any kind of work of the sorts.

From the source ( volkskrant ) "Huawei was in staat om zowel binnen KPN als vanuit China ‘ongeautoriseerd, ongecontroleerd en ongelimiteerd KPN-mobiele nummers af te luisteren’, inclusief die van ministers, toenmalig minister-president Jan Peter Balkenende en Chinese dissidenten. Tevens had Huawei inzicht in de database met afgetapte telefoonnummers. Dat is in strijd met de Telecommunicatiewet."

Roughly translates to: Huawei has unlimited access to listen to every KPN-number including those of ministers and chinese dissidents and had insights into databases with tapped phonenumbers without authorisation or oversight which was in violation with the Telecommunication law

This story is mainly about KPN's incompetence but also about the massive influence Huawei or the chinese government has over KPN's network. There's no evidence of misuse but there also wouldn't be any evidence to begin with if there was misuse as they had full control over the network.