Do you really see this as a negative?
But then, sometimes I think I am the sad one, because I always want more and will never be happy with anything I have.
I've meet people who totally agree with my mindset and those that agree with my friends mindset, it really does seem to be a fundamental difference among people.
https://bemorewithless.com/the-story-of-the-mexican-fisherma...
I can relate to the concept and have to work hard on taking time to appreciate what I have - I call that mindset 'inherent dissatisfaction' and personally found it poisonous, but realise that's probably not the case for everyone.