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There is a significant difference between going through something that really sucks, and being traumatized. Based on the information presented thus far, OP is going through the former.Yeah losing all your savings working on shit that didn't matter in the end while wasting years of your life isn't traumatizing at all. Glad you cleared that up for them.
At what point does it become traumatizing? After a person in that circumstance falls into one hellish layer of depression after another and decides to finally end it?