- Phone a friend and chat
- Phone a friend and go for coffee, a walk, a drive, or just hang out at theirs or mine
- Phone a couple friends (one at a time) and arrange to (depending on time of day and schedule) go clubbing together, pubbing, to an event, etc
- Go alone for a walk (usually along the ocean), or into town, or to one of my 'third places' to hopefully run into friends
- Watch TV. This left one with a sad, unsatisfying feeling if a session went on too long: the TV studios geared their writing to the LCD. This is absolutely why MTV was so hugely popular before the net.
- Go shopping, or window-shopping (famously, to some people, 'the mall' was a 'third place'). Ideally, some non-chain store (eg: a specialty book store with foreign/obscure books and magazines)
- Play/practise a musical instrument
- Skateboard (something I have not done for aeons now)
- Rent, or rewatch, a VHS tape/DVD of a movie
- Read a book, a magazine, or a newspaper
- Start some mini-project (anything from laundry, to creative writing, to tending to a business card collection, to making a tee shirt)
- Write letters to friends who had moved away (long distance phone calls were expensive)
- Relax with a cup of tea, smoke cigarettes and listen to music. Often while doing this I would re-read my favorite books; easy to browse ones, like art books, old photos etc.
- Oh, and program my computer! Just... making programs without a whole lot of collaborative features, obviously.
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