You can be as upset about the state of things as you want to be -- yes, it's wrong and broken and unfair -- but you can't
change the state of things by just wishing hard enough. The GP's point stands, things
are organized via WA, even though they shouldn't be, so your choices are exactly these:
- Use WA and participate
- Don't use WA, don't participate
- Go stand in front of the home of whoever organizes the activity and have a little one-person picket parade with angrily-worded signs -- this is the same as #2 but might make you feel better