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0 pointsInvertedRhodium5y ago0 comments

On that note, if my family isn't willing to install another application and spend 5 minutes wrapping their head around how to use it - well, I guess I just accurately defined the value of our relationship.

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paulryanrogers5y ago

From their point of view it may appear you value your communication preferences more than the relationship

BeetleB5y ago

> well, I guess I just accurately defined the value of our relationship.

While that is true, what you have not accurately determined is why that value is low, and how much of that is your doing vs theirs.

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