> Please avoid the patronizing tone. Your experience is not universal.
I'm sorry, I did not mean to sound patronizing, but rather enabling for people in similar situations to be aware of the choices they have.
> I've personally witnessed victims escalating the conflict into much worse situations.
Of course punching someone in the face can always result in them falling in a really bad way and just being dead right away!
My experience comes from a schoolkid age where body weight and muscle strength were still low enough to make that rather unlikely I would guess. Even if something bad had happened, I was still below the ago of criminal responsibility, so while neglecting the emotional and physical consequences for other people, consequences for me would have been a slap on the wrist.