> I don't see anything bad happening to me, so everyone shouldn't care either!
What about:
> people's rights to have consensual interactions and relationships with each other are more important than their right to be treated "fairly" whatever that actually means.
The important point here is that we don't have a good working definition of "fair" that is universally agreed upon. The only ethical way to live in a society of people who fundamentally disagree is by optimising for consent.