I make better money now, more than most people my age probably make on average, but probably significantly less than most developers with similar experienceYou might be surprised. The salaries reported in this forum are higher than normal, because of the large membership from the west coast/FAANG.
Here in the DC suburbs, I'd expect a non-FAANG developer without a TS/poly to earn $100k-$150k (straight out of college, more like $85k-$100k). Add a TS/poly, working in a SCIF for a 3-letter agency or military, add $20k-$50k to the ends of that range. Yes, many earn more, either working for a FAANG in the area, or in niche areas, or in some sort of management/ownership/partnership arrangement (BAH consultants, etc).