- Get a roommate and cut out nearly half the rent and half the utilities (two bedrooms aren't much more in a walk up).
- You're clearly eating almost all your meals out. You could probably cut this by 2/3 if you went to a Trader Joes and ate 3/4 of your meals at home or made lunch.
- Cut out the maid. Buy a nice vacuum and some cleaning supplies.
New Total: $1,950. Just saved you $19k next year.
Pro-tip: Take dates to Thai restaurants in Manhattan. Many have great ambience and you'll spend ~$30 with a drink each.
Super Pro-tip: The girls you want to date in the long run will be happy to pay their share. :-)