One of my startups sold for about $25-40MM depending on whether you count pre- or post-earnout. The typical engineer got maybe a quarter of a percent of options on common stock. You’d think that would net out to $62.5K but we had a messy cap table. Various investments’ preferred status ate deeply into what remained for common stockholders.
Even if there were no cap table issues, the engineers wouldn’t have been happy, because they hung their hopes and dreams on a multi-hundred-million dollar exit. We experienced 90%+ engineer turnover over the next six months. (We got by just fine.)
Rule of thumb: do not join a startup for the money.