At this stage you really need to stop and think about what you are doing and who you are hurting; they're just words to you but they're a lifetime of hurt to others.
Be . Better.
> I mean i am a (cis) gay male, so I don't think I have a heteronormative take on the world, but you do you.
You really want to call upon the equivalent of the "some of my best friends are black" excuse? I can't even...