> Has anyone ever even used Zoom to connect with family members?
Most of my (large, 25+) extended family has done so.
And we've used it too. Fortunately for me, Zoom invites also provide a local call in number and I use that -- not from my smartphone, but from a bog standard cordless phone connected to an ATA[0] situated outside my firewall -- to join Zoom meetings.
No, my family doesn't get to see my shining face, but they already know what it looks like.
I've considered setting up a self-hosted Jitsi[1] instance, but it seems like overkill for my needs.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Analog_telephone_adapter
[1] https://jitsi.github.io/handbook/docs/devops-guide/devops-gu...