Removing agency from users of your program or programming language is not a recipe for success.
I don't agree with you on this issue or your "recipe for success". The reply was fine.
The easiest way to "get around the borrow checker" is not to use Rust at all. We have evidence of people using it, so they are proof positive that not everyone will "just take that route".
If you meant not everyone, but some people, then yes, we know there are people releasing programs not coded in Rust, many quite successfully.