I'm not sure whether it's actually better to abstract all the unsafe away, or force it to shown where it's used. In one respect, they may be right, it might lesson the impact of unsafe and it gets used more freely. On the other, it also means that it's not necessarily immediately obvious when you're crossing boundaries, since the obvious bits and intentionally hidden away.
Though I'll freely admit my initial responses were a bit hyperbolic and... testy. :)