Googling "most popular haskell language extensions", I see this article: https://lexi-lambda.github.io/blog/2018/02/10/an-opinionated... which lists 34 recommended extensions and admits "a few of them are likely to be more controversial than others". Half of them don't have names which make their purpose immediately obvious to me.
A more data-driven approach is turned up here: https://gist.github.com/atondwal/ee869b951b5cf9b6653f7deda0b... which concludes "only 10 extensions show up in more than 10% of the Haskell files on GitHub, and 20 show up in more than 5%!"
Its discussion on reddit (https://www.reddit.com/r/haskell/comments/916jj0/popularity_...) highlights some gaps in the analysis, but also the general notion that "everybody uses language extensions, but not everybody uses the same ones".
Of course, each language extension changes the syntax and/or semantics of the language, so in order to "learn Haskell" I'd have to learn one or more flavors/styles of it – and there doesn't seem to be one standard set of language extensions that are commonly used.