i wonder if anything above sse2 would offer even more performance improvements?
https://www.strchr.com/hash_functions Is also a great write up of how some of the classic hashing algorithms perform of various data sets.
https://nullprogram.com/blog/2018/07/31/ is an interesting approach on generating hashing functions automatically.
As for the speed: I wouldn't claim XXH3 the world's fastest hash function at all. It's very fast for bulk digests, of large buffers. Amongst other similar hash functions. But as we know hashing mostly involves short strings, and there code size matters most. Wordwise FNV1, crc-ni and wyhash would be the fastest IMHO.