everything is a simplification. of course it's not spontaneous, but that is literally the word used by physicists to describe the phenomenon.
what does the wave equation of the electron in a hydrogen atom look like during "spontaneous" emission of a photon? i don't think anyone has any idea.
i'm talking about something entirely separate from a linear combination of two energy eigenstates. i'm not saying take
\psi = \sin{\theta} \psi_1 + \cos{\theta} \psi_2
where \psi_1 and \psi_2 are eigenstates of the hydrogen atom hamiltonian and simulate it. i'm saying there is a phenomenon that i'm pretty sure wouldn't be adequately modelled by a smooth function.
edit: add explanation of \psi_1 and \psi_2