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0 pointsempath755y ago0 comments

My dad was a grocery checker and my mom was a secretary. I didn’t go to college. I’m currently making more than six figures as a software engineer. The only meaningful networking connections I made outside of work was going to raves in the early 2000s.

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JoeAltmaier5y ago

My six siblings and I had farmer parents with a high school education. We all went to (and finished) college. Now we have 2 fortune-500 VPs, a research nursing administrator, an IT professional, and 2 self-employed business owners doing very well.

So it can help to go to college. Just saying.

Oh. And the next generation - 100% college educated. Several PhD's. All well employed. None working on the farm. So for some segment of America at some time, college was/is a huge factor in their social mobility.

Aaronstotle5y ago

That's funny, I'm an IT professional now and I'd like to one day own a farm.

JoeAltmaier5y ago

And I do! No animals; just crops and an orchard and 7 gardens. Sometimes horses graze; sometimes we stable overflow from the neighbor.

And I work remotely. Have, for 20 years.

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zenlot5y ago

> None working on the farm.

You seem to be proud, but sound derogatory towards those who actually work on a farm and are proud of it.

colinmhayes5y ago

There's nothing wrong with working on a farm, but it is objectively not a good job. Long hours, low pay, high stress. I understand being proud of working on a farm, but I understand being proud of not working on a farm too.

JoeAltmaier5y ago

Success in America isn't "becomes a farm laborer". I think that's well-understood.

I actually live on my farm, have for 25 years. With Silicon Valley money from successful startup buyouts.

Btw "You …" kind of posts are sort of unnecessary. I know what I am; no need to tell me. Maybe just add your own thoughts, its less argumentative and we learn something.

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JoeAltmaier5y ago

So it can help to go to college. Just saying.

Aaronstotle5y ago

That's funny, I'm an IT professional now and I'd like to one day own a farm.

JoeAltmaier5y ago

And I do! No animals; just crops and an orchard and 7 gardens. Sometimes horses graze; sometimes we stable overflow from the neighbor.

And I work remotely. Have, for 20 years.

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zenlot5y ago

> None working on the farm.

You seem to be proud, but sound derogatory towards those who actually work on a farm and are proud of it.

colinmhayes5y ago

JoeAltmaier5y ago

Success in America isn't "becomes a farm laborer". I think that's well-understood.

I actually live on my farm, have for 25 years. With Silicon Valley money from successful startup buyouts.

Btw "You …" kind of posts are sort of unnecessary. I know what I am; no need to tell me. Maybe just add your own thoughts, its less argumentative and we learn something.

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