Tough choice to make right when you just lost your job. The tax bill could be tens of thousands of dollars or more.
I don't see it as a tough choice. Airbnb will IPO, it's just a question of when. It's a safe investment to make. This is a company operating all over the world that had $4.3B in revenue last year. If not COVID-19 they would've probably IPO'd very soon. They will get through it.
If you received options at a strike price at the peak valuation, then the current valuation may be below that level.