Very simple answer: blue states have bigger budgets so the % of aid they receive from the government seems smaller.
The Federalist has done an analysis of federal aid per resident:
>Against a national average of $1,935 in intergovernmental spending per American, red states receive just $1,879. Blue states get considerably more, at $2,124 per resident. Purple states see the least of their money returned to them per capita, at just $1,770. Measured in this way, the blue states are getting quite a bit more than the red or purple.
https://thefederalist.com/2017/11/17/red-states-tax-takers-b...