On the other hand, they've had plenty of time and resources to do just that in a reliable fashion, it's not like it's one guy in his bedroom (I hope!). It's not like they are volunteers doing this open source for the community, they are getting paid (very well, I assume) to run the system. And Management is getting paid (even better, I assume) to make sure the priorities are right and correct decisions are taken. "Who could've known there might be a lot more traffic" sounds like somebody failed in Management, and engineering might have failed by not foreseeing the issue and/or informing Management.
Sure, don't burn people at the stake, but "hey, it's hard, don't blame them, they are doing their best" doesn't cut it for me. I'm sure they're expecting to be paid and not for someone to "do their best" to pay them.
