The usual corollary (that ML should "therefore" be able to learn with a few examples) may only apply, as I see it, if we somehow encode previous "learning" about the problem in very the structure (architecture, hardware, design) of the model itself.
It's really intuition based on 'natural' evolution, but I think you don't get to train much "intelligence" in 1 generation of being, however complex your being might be (or else humans would be rising exponentially in intelligence every generation by now, and think of what that means to the symmetrical assumption about silicon-based intelligence).
Yes, and they do. They aren't choosing completely arbitrary algorithms when they attempt to solve a ML problem, they are typically using approaches that have already been proven to work well on related problems, or at least are variants of proven approaches.
That isn't even counting our hardwired animal intelligence.