Elixir itself is almost completely staying-out-of-your-way language as well -- meaning that if your request takes 10ms to do everything it needs then it's almost guaranteed that 9.95ms of those 10 are spent in the DB and receiving the request and sending the response; Elixir almost doesn't take CPU resources.
I worked with a lot of languages, Go/JS/Ruby/PHP/Elixir included. Elixir so far has hit the best balance between programmer productivity and DevOps happiness. (Although I can't deny that the single binary outputs of Go and Rust are definitely the ideal pieces to maintain from a sysadmin's perspective.)