I often find myself using languages I’d rather not (yaml for ansible/docker-compose or shell scripts are common). Or maybe you love everything else about the job, besides the language you must use. Or you love everything and the language, but now you’re asked to complete a task that’s not really suited to the language. Ir maybe you love everything about your job and then are asked to fix something in a legacy project.

most devs have "appropriate jobs" for their skillset. It doesn't follow that the tooling chosen by others before you at that job is "appropriate" or that the language is "appropriate" or that you have any choice in the matter. Most of us don't. Most of us work within the constraints provided. Some of us work to remove or change those constraints.

getting an "appropriate job" rarely addresses these problems and even more rarely makes it evident that they exist before you take the "appropriate job"